WARNING: This page is about a different car, the 1995 Honda Prelude. However, it is still accessible from the selected car via links, so may be relevant.
Fig 1: Identifying Test Harness (07LAJ-PT3010A) Terminals (Prelude)
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Fig 2: Engine Control Module (ECM) Connector Terminal ID (Prelude)